CBT for Worry London

Therapy for Managing Worry (Generalized Anxiety Disorder) in Canary Wharf

  • Do you spend a lot of time worrying about future events?
  • Do other people call you a “worrier”?
  • Do you find it hard to stop worrying?
  • Do you tend to catastrophise, i.e., predict that things will turn out badly?
  • Do you worry about the fact that you worry?
  • Are you experiencing symptoms like muscle tension, restlessness, difficulty concentrating or sleep problems?

If you answered yes to at least three of the above, you may have Generalized Anxiety Disorder and might benefit from anxiety therapy, such as cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT).

CBT for Worry will teach you skills to help reduce your anxiety symptoms related to worrying.

What is Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)?

Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) is an anxiety disorder characterized by excessive and uncontrollable worry. It is often referred to as the “Worry” disorder. GAD differs from other anxiety disorders in that the worries are not specific to a particular theme. People with GAD tend to worry about a number of different themes/topics, including day-to-day events, “what if I am late to my meeting”, the health of their loved ones or their own health, their finances, getting lost on the way to an appointment, etc. People with GAD can worry about anything and everything.

CBT for Worry-woman with head in hands

What are the Symptoms of Generalized Anxiety Disorder?

Typically, a person with generalized anxiety disorder experiences uncontrollable worry, accompanied by restlessness, feeling on edge, sleep disturbance, feeling tired much of the time, difficulty concentrating, irritability, and muscle tension. Most worriers describe constant anxiety and find it hard to stop worrying.

Many people with GAD find it difficult to “switch off”. They describe a racing mind, and an inability to stop worrying. As a result, they are unable to relax, their sleep can suffer, and they don’t enjoy life because they are too busy worrying about day-to-day events.

What are the Symptoms of Generalized Anxiety Disorder?

Typically, a person with generalized anxiety disorder (the official term for “Worry”) experiences uncontrollable worry, accompanied by restlessness, feeling on edge, sleep disturbance, feeling tired much of the time, difficulty concentrating, irritability, and muscle tension. Most worriers describe constant anxiety and find it hard to stop worrying.

Many people with GAD find it difficult to “switch off”. They describe a racing mind, and an inability to stop worrying. As a result, they are unable to relax, their sleep can suffer, and they don’t enjoy life because they are too busy worrying about day-to-day events.

CBT for Worry can help you manage your anxiety better

Doesn’t Everyone Worry?

Everybody worries from time to time. It’s normal to worry at times of stress, i.e., when you are trying to conceive, going for a job interview, thinking of changing jobs, or perhaps leaving your relationship. But there is a difference between appropriate worry, and unproductive worry. Those who suffer with GAD tend to engage in unproductive worry and experience unhelpful thoughts and feelings that keep the worry cycle going.

Unproductive worry has the following qualities:

  • Catastrophic thinking: predicting that a negative outcome will occur, and if it does, doubting your ability to cope.
  • Intolerance of uncertainty: you find it very difficult to accept the unknown and so seek every ounce of reassurance you can that your worst fear will not happen.
  • Ineffective problem-solving: since most of the events that you worry about are future-oriented, (i.e., they haven’t yet happened), attempting to solve them only leads you to a heightened state of anxiety.
  • Difficulty accepting risk: unproductive worry leads to attempts to abolish any possibility of future danger, or at least minimize the chances of negative events occurring. These attempts are exhausting, time-consuming and unrealistic because accepting an element of risk and uncertainty is part of life!
  • Worry about Worry: worriers don’t only worry about day-to- day events, but also about their inability to control their worries. Common worries include:
Worry Thoughts

So When Does Normal Worry Become Unproductive?

Clinically, we consider worry to be a problem when it occurs frequently, when it is long in duration (i.e., it lasts hours or days), and when it causes you a significant amount of distress (you can’t sleep, or you are distracted by your worries to the extent it interferes with your day-to-day tasks).

How Common is GAD and What Causes it?

It is thought that 5% of the population experience GAD. Many sufferers say they have been a worrier for years, and that they worry about everything. Like many anxiety disorders, there are different risk factors involved in the development of Generalized Anxiety Disorder.

Temperament/Biology: it is thought that individuals born with particular temperaments are more likely to develop Generalized Anxiety Disorder. “Children who are behaviourally inhibited are more easily distressed and react quite easily to novel stimuli” (Fox & Frenkel, 2013). We also know that individuals with GAD are often found to have an imbalance of brain chemicals (serotonin, dopamine and norepinephrine) and this could be a contributing factor to developing GAD; an imbalance of these chemicals can affect emotional stability. It’s also thought that in people with GAD, the amygdala has become highly sensitive and thus it reacts with a high stress response.

Genetics: many anxiety disorders are hereditary and GAD is no different. In fact, GAD has a higher genetic component than other anxiety disorders. One twin study found that genes accounted for nearly 40% of the development of GAD in twin males.

Stress: it is thought that individuals exposed to stressful events either during their childhood, or in adulthood, are at a higher risk of developing GAD. Examples of stressful events include the death or illness of a loved one, or going through an illness oneself. Often when we experience an illness, either of our own, or of a loved one, it can trigger worries and anxiety, which sometimes don’t improve, even if/when the illness does.

Traumatic Experiences: abuse in childhood can also put an individual at a greater risk for developing GAD. The experience of abuse can lead to a state of hyper-vigilance (always on the lookout for danger) -a feeling of constantly being on edge, and feeling wired up. This is a normal and natural response to abuse. The problem is when the response carries on, long after the abuse is over.

Why Does Worry Persist?

There are a number of reasons worry persists:

Positive Beliefs About Worry

Individuals who suffer with excessive worry tend to have a number of positive beliefs about worry, including, worry:

  • Helps me to problem-solve
  • Prepares me for bad outcomes
  • Protects me from negative emotions associated with bad outcomes
  • Shows that I am a loving and caring friend/partner/parent/child
  • Motivates me (“if I didn’t worry, I wouldn’t get anything done”)

“What-If” Thoughts and Fortune-Telling

Fortune-telling; Worrying about the future

Individuals who suffer from GAD typically spend a lot of time predicting the future. They engage in “what-if” thoughts, thinking that if they can anticipate the future this will reduce the uncertainty of what lies ahead. These negative thought patterns are often targeted in exposure therapy and other CBT techniques.  

Some examples of uncertain situations include:

  • Helps me to problem-solve
  • Prepares me for bad outcomes
  • My child has a cold but what if it’s something more serious?
  • up for promotion but what if I won’t get it?
  • What if I lose my job and won’t be able to afford my standard of living?
  • partner and I argue all the time; what if our relationship doesn’t last?
  • I booked a hotel abroad; what if it looks nothing like it did online?
All of the above examples contain an element of uncertainty or the unknown. Worriers are not great at dealing with the unknown. As a result, people who worry excessively often think about everything that could go wrong in the hopes that this will help them feel more prepared for when it does.
All of the above examples contain an element of uncertainty or the unknown. Worriers are not great at dealing with the unknown. As a result, people who worry excessively often think about everything that could go wrong in the hopes that this will help them feel more prepared for when it does.

Preventing Catastrophe with Safety Behaviours

In addition to the positive beliefs above, most worriers engage in safety behaviours to protect themselves from bad outcomes. The following are common safety behaviours that worriers engage in:

  • Conducting excessive research: (whatever your worry, you will research a lot of information to try and “solve” your worry).
  • Reassurance-seeking: worriers typically ask for reassurance from loved ones/doctors, in order to reduce their anxiety about their particular worry.
  • Avoidance: many individuals choose to avoid thinking about their worry (covert avoidance), or they avoid triggers to their worry (overt avoidance).

    Examples of overt avoidance include:

    • avoiding flying if you are afraid the plane will crash
    • avoiding weighing your infant child in case you discover they haven’t gained weight
    • avoiding checking your bank balance in case you discover you owe money.
  • Excessive checking:
    • you might check emails over and over before hitting “send”
    • you might check these emails even after you’ve sent them
    • you might send text messages to loved ones checking that they are OK
    • you might check your work over and over before submitting it

Safety behaviors keep excessive worry going because they prevent you from learning to tolerate uncertainty.

What is CBT for Generalized Anxiety?

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy or CBT for Generalized Anxiety Disorder is an evidence-based, highly effective therapy which has been proven effective in helping individuals like you manage anxiety.

CBT is recommended by the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) in the treatment of GAD.

CBT involves a variety of tools and treatment techniques to help you control anxiety, and our work will primarily include helping you to:

  • Understand the difference between real life problems and worries about the future (the former you can do something about, the latter you cannot).
  • Apply problem-solving to real-life problems
  • Increase your tolerance for uncertainty
  • Identify your positive beliefs about worry (the beliefs that keep worry going)
  • Reduce your safety behaviours
  • Design behavioural experiments to test out what happens when you reduce your safety behaviours

Through our work together you will learn how to cope with anxiety and discover that you don’t have to control every possible outcome and situation, and that doing so doesn’t really have any bearing on the outcome.

The Challenges of Treating Generalized Anxiety Disorder

Many of my clients work in banking, in jobs involving risk management. They are expected to forecast the future and reduce risk on a daily basis. This can make overcoming worry a challenge because this is what makes them good at their job! The problem arises when you approach situations outside of work in the same manner as you do your work. In other words, the skills and mental processes that make you great at your job can actually debilitate you in your everyday life. However, it is possible to continue reducing risk in your job, but learning to let go a little outside work.

Do you still have questions or concerns about CBT for Worry?

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I have tried to stop worrying in the past and it just didn’t work. What is different about CBT?

CBT for Worry differs from other approaches to worry, in that the aim of treatment is not fire-fighting every worry that you have. Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy for worry will teach you ways to recognise when you are starting to worry, and how to stop yourself from engaging with every worry that you have. We will address the worry process rather than the content of your worries. This approach works because most worriers will say “once I stop worrying about one thing I will worry about something else”.

The first step is to help you identify whether the thing you are worried about is a real life problem or a future-oriented worry. If it’s the former, then you will learn how to problem-solve. If it’s a future-oriented worry (about something that has not yet happened and may never happen) then you will learn how to identify your beliefs about worry, and evaluate the usefulness of worrying about something that may never actually occur.

What we know for certain is that even if we looked at the content of one of your worries, i.e., your worry that you might not get a promotion, and helped you to feel less worried about that, you will probably find something else to worry about. This is the nature of worry. You solve one worry but then your mind moves onto the next one. And so tackling each and every worry at the “content” as opposed to the “process” level is not an effective strategy for overcoming worry.

I don’t want anyone to know I’m seeing a CBT therapist for managing anxiety.
I understand your privacy concerns. One way that I protect your anonymity is by booking meetings so they are spaced out. That way, your session will finish before my next client arrives, and you won’t have to worry about running into someone on your way in or out.

The only time I would need to disclose that you are seeing me is if you were an imminent risk to yourself or to others (see FAQS #8 & #9 for more information).

What is the difference between worry and anxiety?
This is a great question! There are two main differences. Worry occurs in the mind (it’s the “cognitive” part), whereas anxiety occurs in the body (it’s the “physical” part). Excessive and uncontrollable worry can therefore lead to anxiety symptoms. But there’s also another difference between worry and anxiety; worry tends to be future-oriented, i.e., “what-if I don’t get that promotion”, whereas anxiety is what you feel now about something happening imminently, i.e., the butterflies you get in your stomach just before a job interview.
What does CBT for Worry cost?
If you’d like to know more about what CBT for Worry costs, please visit my Fees page.
If I attend during the day, won’t I feel worse when I go back to work? I’ll need to be able to concentrate back at the office.

This is an understandable concern, but most of my clients actually feel that they are able to return to work feeling more positive. They feel pleased that they are taking charge and tackling their problems.

Sometimes, however, sessions can feel emotionally draining, especially if we are working on personal issues. And, when this is the case, it is a good idea to leave yourself some time to process the session and prepare yourself mentally before you return to work.

Many of my clients find the walk back to their office sufficient time to regroup, but you might prefer to stop off at a nearby coffee shop to give yourself time to reflect and regroup before returning to work. It’s really a matter of personal preference.

Do you have more general questions about CBT?
If you have more questions about CBT, please visit my FAQ page.

Are you ready to take the first step?

If you are ready to address your tendency to worry and learn how to cope with anxiety better, or if you still have questions about cognitive behavioural therapy for worry at CBT Canary Wharf, please get in touch with me via email or by my contact form to schedule a free of charge preliminary phone consultation.

I look forward to hearing from you!

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